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How to Handle a Job Interview When You Have Anxiety

How to Handle a Job Interview When You Have Anxiety

How to Handle a Job Interview When You Have Anxiety

&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpcnt">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"wpa">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<span class&equals;"wpa-about">Advertisements<&sol;span>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<div class&equals;"u top&lowbar;amp">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<amp-ad width&equals;"300" height&equals;"265"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; type&equals;"pubmine"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-siteid&equals;"173035871"&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab; data-section&equals;"1">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;amp-ad>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Going to a job interview when you have anxiety is a stressful experience&period; Your palms will sweat&comma; you may feel like you’ll have nothing to say to the hiring manager and even have a fear of making a fool of yourself&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Handling a job interview with <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;theword360&period;com&sol;2020&sol;12&sol;14&sol;what-it-feels-like-to-have-anxiety&sol;">anxiety<&sol;a> is not easy&period; However&comma; you might need to work on your anxiety and confidence levels if you want to succeed in your career and live a financially healthy life&period; That’s because job interviews are inevitable&period; You’re going to be interviewed whether you work for someone else or have your own business&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Dealing with people when you have anxiety is tricky&comma; however&comma; you can learn ways to calm yourself and conduct a successful job interview&period; Job interviews don’t need to be scary if you’re an anxious or timid person&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">What’s important is to realize that anxiety shouldn’t stop you from pursuing a job you want or starting a side business&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Here are a few ways to handle a job interview when you have anxiety and fearful thoughts&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph"><strong>Make a list of all your qualities before the job interview<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Handling a job interview will become like a simple task once you identify your strengths and qualities&period; Write all the qualities and good things you bring to a job on a piece of paper the night before your job interview&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">The Berkeley Well-Being Institute has a simple <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;berkeleywellbeing&period;com&sol;positive-qualities-activity&period;html">guide<&sol;a> on how to identify positive traits in order to use them to feel more confident and secure within yourself&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Anxiety doesn’t have to make you feel less than others&period; Moreover&comma; anxiety can be an advantage instead of a flaw&period; For example&comma; those with anxiety can seem more energetic and action-oriented&comma; qualities that are appreciated by employers&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph"><strong>Do breathing exercises before the job interview<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Deep breathing exercises will relax your neck and shoulders and lower your stress levels&period; Having anxiety comes with tensed muscles and breathing exercises can help loosen these muscles&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">NYC-based psychiatrist&comma; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;psychologytoday&period;com&sol;us&sol;blog&sol;urban-survival&sol;202204&sol;slow-breathing-exercise-can-reduce-stress-and-anxiety">Marlynn Wei<&sol;a> thinks that even five minutes of deep breathing exercises can decrease your stress levels and make you feel much better&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Finding time in the morning before your job interview to do deep breathing and relax your body will positively impact your entire day&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph"><strong>Prepare for the job interview<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Everyone needs to prepare before a job interview&comma; not only those who suffer from anxiety&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Check the company’s website&comma; look over its social media profiles and find out what its values are&period; Understand the message the company is trying to send and whether you agree with it or not&period; Check the services the company is offering to its clients and what kind of clients they have&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Would you like to work for this company and are their values in line with yours&quest; You can also check the company’s <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;glassdoor&period;com&sol;index&period;htm">Glassdoor<&sol;a> profile and reviews&period; What are people saying about working there&quest; These are good things to know about the job you’re interviewing for&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">You should also prepare for potential questions you’d need to answer during the interview&period; Expect questions like why are you applying for this job&quest; what new things could you bring to this job or how did you handle mistakes at your work before or&sol;and what made you leave the last job&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Knowing the answers to potential job interview questions will decrease the anxiety around the job interview and help you feel more confident and relaxed&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph"><strong>Be punctual&nbsp&semi;<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Being on time for a job interview is important&period; You want to make a good impression to the hiring manager&period; This goes the other way&comma; too&period; If the hiring manager is on time&comma; that shows a respect for the candidate and a commitment to the job&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">However&comma; when you’re not on time&comma; you can become overly anxious about the interview&period; If you’re struggling with anxiety&comma; you know how stressful it is to either miss a deadline or not be on time for a meeting or appointment&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Try to get up early and leave even earlier if you need to drive to the company where the job interview takes place&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph"><strong>Be yourself &lpar;warts and all&rpar;<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">The worst thing someone with anxiety would do in a job interview would be to pretend to be someone they’re not&period; For example&comma; if you’re an introvert and you try to pose as an extroverted person&comma; the hiring manager will realize that&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Just because it’s a job interview doesn’t mean the company is looking for extroverted people to hire&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Try to answer sincerely to all the questions you’re being asked and don’t cover some of the flaws you have&comma; thinking they’ll be a put-off to the interviewer&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Remember that if you’re not yourself during the job interview and you’re hired&comma; you’ll need to continue to pretend to be that person you portrayed in the interview stage&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">You won’t manage to keep that up for long&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph"><strong>Tell them that you’re nervous<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Everyone knows that during a job interview you are on the spot&comma; a situation that makes many people nervous&period; Try to mention to the interviewer that you are anxious&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">I am sure that if the company is the right fit&comma; they will understand that&period; You are certainly not the first or the last interviewee whose palms are clammy and are sweating a tad too much&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph"><strong>Remember that you are interviewing them as well<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">This aspect is usually forgotten by people interviewing for a new job&period;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">You are interviewing the company as much as they interview you&period; You will need to gather enough information about them to decide if the company is a good fit for you and whether you’ll feel comfortable working there&period; &nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Try asking them questions to take the pulse on how the company is working&comma; what it’s like being their employee and so on&period; You can try asking any of these questions&colon; what are the company’s goals&quest; why did the last employee leave&quest; what was the biggest challenge the company had to face and how did they overcome it&quest;&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Asking questions shows you are interested in the job itself and not only in how much it pays&period; This will make you seem more confident and interesting as a candidate&period; Plus&comma; when you’re confident it will show in your relaxed body language&period; You won’t gesticulate as much&comma; and you will look relaxed and chill&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph"><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;resources&period;biginterview&period;com&sol;interviews-101&sol;non-verbal-communication-interview&sol;">Big Interview<&sol;a> says that body language during an interview is a very important part of getting the job&period; When you look laidback and put together&comma; the hiring manager will be more interested in knowing more things about you and even consider you for the job&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Handling a job interview when you have anxiety is not easy&period; However&comma; there are many things you can do to ensure you maintain control over the job interview and create a positive&comma; relaxed exchange between you and the hiring manager&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Believe in yourself because you have more qualities and strengths than you give yourself credit for&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph"><strong>Author&&num;8217&semi;s Bio<&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<p class&equals;"wp-block-paragraph">Marlena Bontas is a content writer&comma; tea drinker&comma; a free spirit who likes walking in nature&comma; traveling&comma; and living in foreign countries&period; She advocates for mental health on her Medium <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;medium&period;com&sol;&commat;marlenaeva">Blog<&sol;a>&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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